Healing from a childhood with a narcissistic parent / narcissistic parents:
Children of the self-absorbed: a grown-ups guide to getting over narcissistic parents
Will I ever be good enough? Healing the daughters of narcissistic mothers
Healing your attachment wounds (most likely the wound of being an unloved son or daughter) that likely had you enter the relationship with the narcissist in the first place.
Healing from trauma:
Complex PTSD: from surviving to thriving
The post-traumatic stress disorder sourcebook
Moving away from the narcissist:
How to do no contact like a boss
Becoming the narcissist’s nightmare (I am not a revenge person by any means, but this book is such a good resource in understanding the entire thing!)
Understanding what happened:
Rebuilding: