10 strategies the narcissist uses to escape responsibility and alter your as well as community perception

In this video post I talk about 10 strategies the narcissist uses to escape obvious obligations. There are more strategies than just this one, but I will address those in a different video. I wanted to stick to the example of alimentation to discuss 10 primary strategies and the creation of a web of confusion, … Continue reading 10 strategies the narcissist uses to escape responsibility and alter your as well as community perception

When I feel unsure: did I all dream this up? am I the narcissist? is he ok after all?

All of us who have experienced narcissistic abuse go through massive self-doubt. This is especially the case when we have been experiencing gas lighting. Intermittent reinforcement - or love bombing amidst ongoing abuse - may have us wonder whether our "guy" or "girl" may really "not be that bad". When our family and friends don't … Continue reading When I feel unsure: did I all dream this up? am I the narcissist? is he ok after all?

The reasons we disconnect from our social base (during and after narcissistic abuse)

One typical strategy in narcissistic abuse is isolation. Victims are isolated from friends and family and thereby lose touch with "normalcy" as we know it. Our focus on the nuclear family makes that there are few people who see what is going on in our homes. This plays in favor of the narcissist who creates beautiful … Continue reading The reasons we disconnect from our social base (during and after narcissistic abuse)

Beyond codependency: the REAL reason you are with a narcissist

When you are moving through the turmoil of figuring out what on earth is happening in your relationship and to you - it can be a scary ride. You will often wonder (as is typical when you are being gaslighted) whether it is in fact all you - making this entire craze up. Whether it … Continue reading Beyond codependency: the REAL reason you are with a narcissist